Wednesday, April 05, 2006 Y
i was very free on mon.. i dint go to work.. i was slacking with sean n laine.. woo.. that was a nice day... except that the heavy rain spoils everything.. Zzz...
i was going to blog by blog, to read abt their recent updates?.. hmm.. i came across limei's blog n spotted this short paragraph which i found it very true....
[sometimes. a forward msg.. from a fren. does wonders. is anybody aware of that? or maybe.. a warm hug. a smile. a nod. anything except questions.sometimes.. when people asked if ure ok. u said yes. but perhaps.. we all longed for that person to carry on saying something like.. ' now tell me the truth' that extra sentence to jus make everything right. ]
will there be such a fren to exist?? nahx, i dun think so lehx.. they assume u r ok.. but in fact, u dont, n u dint bother to ask further..
u dint know how badly they need u in that moment of time, u dint realise when they sounded weird, u chose any other things except to accompany them.. one rejection, it may lead to utter disappointment or maybe give up hopes..
n i came across some phrases on frens..
Carelessness and neglect can be dangerous to a friendship. And painful.A true friend is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes the smile on your face.Never explain yourself. Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it. There comes a point in your life when you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will.A friend is someone who can see the truth and pain in you even when you are fooling everyone else. If friends disappoint you over and over, that's in large part your own fault. Once someone has shown a tendency to be self-centered, you need to recognize that and take care of yourself; people aren't going to change simply because you want them to.As people grow up, they realize it becomes less important to have more friends, and more important to have real ones. ya, somehow or rather, i choose this way.. to believe that frens come n go.. dun give me those kind of bullshit, n tell me that things will be the same as before or things will be better if u do this this this.. fuck off.. if i need to do smth to maintain any frenship, pls pls.. fuck off..
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