Thursday, July 06, 2006 Y
i was reading my past entries.. i did talk alot bad things abt victor dint i..
from there, i realised smth.. need time to understand a person before u give judgement.. i even said victor was cold-blooded.. -_-"
not only this incident makes feel this way.. there's this incident abt jun's fren which i also felt the way.. reali muz know n udst the person before u make any judgement..
i dint talk to jun's this fren right from the start, i mean, no words of exchanged from wat i recalled.. we were only those hi bye acquaintance.. den there was misunderstanding between him n jun.. thereafter, all the more i posted him to my "dislike" list..
but now, we talked in msn, became my msn fren, became my confidant, became my adviser, became the fren who makes me think n talked sense to me..
it was all becoz i dint get to know him n i posted him to my "dislike" list, similarly for vic, i rarely got to know him for 2 months, in one of my entries in july 2005, i was mean to condemn him..
this is a lesson to be learned..
ya, i found those poems in my past entries n wanna share them again..
There is nothing more dreadful than the habit of doubt. Doubt separates people. It is a poison that disintegrates friendships and breaks up pleasant relations. It is a thorn that irritates and hurts; it is a sword that kills.
An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.
Good humor is a tonic for mind and body. It is the best antidote for anxiety and depression. It is a business asset. It attracts and keeps friends. It lightens human burdens. It is the direct route to serenity and contentment.
A life is too precious to waste to spend on anything but the best.
"I have been trying to make the best of grief and am just beginning to learn to allow it to make the best of me."
Sunday, October 16, 2005
1. Friends don't have to be exactly the same. Friends have similarities but they also have their differences. They key to opening up the world of friendship is not only to expand on similarities but to accept each other's faults. Because you can't ever judge your friend.
2. Friends have to argue! No one likes to but it is necessary to be healthy. Cause if you agree on everything, either the government has expanded cloning subjects or someone isn't being true and is trying a little too hard.
3. You have to be comfortable together or else you just aren't going to click. If you feel edgy around the person then something isn't quite right.
4. Friends love unconditionally. They have there little angry moments but what's done is done and all is forgive and forget. Why let something that happened in the past ruin what happiness you could have in the future?
Sunday, January 22, 2006
Friendship is one of the most important parts of a young person's life. Most every young person spends a great deal of time with companions: going to movies, roller-blading, playing sports, swimming, and listening to music.
In school, students quickly group themselves into friends at the beginning of each year. Since young people invest themselves so much in their friendships, they should be required in school to reflect upon the nature of these important associations.
First, the teacher should ask young people to define a friend. Most likely the students will say that a friend is someone you like to be with, or to hang out with, or someone who has the same interests as you. The more thoughtful students will say that a friend is someone you can count on.
Then the question becomes whether a friend is a good person and whether friendship is a good thing. The students will answer universally "yes." So, then, can bank robbers be friends? Here the question gets a little tricky.
If they say yes, then we must ask whether bank robbers can be good people and remind the students that we said friends are good people. If the students say no, then we have to figure out the flaw in our logic from the beginning. (Realize that bank robbers hang out together, have the same interests, and rely on each other. Yet bank robbers are not good.)
A real friend is someone who knows when you're sad without you having to tell him...
someone who will then give you a pep talk, take you out to play video games, and agree to take a whole bunch of stupid pictures that he'll later regret, all in the name of seeing you smile again.
Someone who will walk miles with you on the beach and pick up a whole bunch of heavy seashells, that he later ends up carrying back.
Someone who will listen to country music (albeit with some grumbling) because you happen to like it.
Someone who will help you compose important mail to an ex.
Someone who will do all kinds of silly stuff to entertain you.
The truest friend of all is one that reads your very soul... one that has been through your childhood with you and still loves you anyway.
One that has watched you make numerous stupid adult decisions, been there to pick up the pieces, without making any judgments, and still loves you anyway.
One that always knows what you are thinking and how you are feeling without you ever having to tell her.
One that's always willing to talk, no matter what the hour.
One that knows when you need company and when you need to be alone.One that can sit with you in comfortable silence.
The best friend of all always knows what's in your heart, and she acts on that...she knows what you miss, what you long for, then manages to give it to you in one simple, heartfelt gesture...
one that can bring you an entire season wrapped in a box full of colored leaves, pinecones, acorns, and quartz.
That's a gift from the heart; that is someone who can read your soul. That's something very rare, and quite irreplaceable, indeed.
Wednesday, April 05, 2006
Carelessness and neglect can be dangerous to a friendship. And painful.
A true friend is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes the smile on your face.
Never explain yourself. Your friends don't need it and your enemies won't believe it.
There comes a point in your life when you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will.
A friend is someone who can see the truth and pain in you even when you are fooling everyone else.
If friends disappoint you over and over, that's in large part your own fault. Once someone has shown a tendency to be self-centered, you need to recognize that and take care of yourself; people aren't going to change simply because you want them to.
As people grow up, they realize it becomes less important to have more friends, and more important to have real ones.
Saturday, May 13, 2006
"Friendship is delicate as a glass, once broken it can be fixed but there will always be cracks"
"True happiness consists not in the multitude of friends, but in their worth and choice."
"If you judge people, you have no time to love them."
all above were copy n paste from my past entries.. dun to delicate to anyone particularly.. juz wanna remind us the importance of frens..
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