juz returned home from wedding dinner of my godma's son..
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finally.. he tied the knot.. 34 yrs old this year.. married a teacher who's a few years younger den him.. being together for ard 1 yr plus.. there i was attending their dinner tonight..
during the dinner, there's 2 ppl who played on the piano.. to start the ball rolling..
den after yum seng, presented on the scene were some of the pics when they were young.. some of the pics they took tgt..
the frens helped to role play, on how they met each other.. and i found out that it was him who initiated to hold her cross the busy road.. typical guy..
how he proposed to her... was they were sitting on the sofa watching tv.. and he suddenly popped up this qn.. "let's get married shall we.."
phew.. such an unromantic propose and she actually accepted..
sounded quite interesting, but in fact the Chias' gers were living in their own world..
papa took this pic for us.. look at the unprofessionalism shot..den this is the prettiest ger in the whole dinner.. she was helping the newly-wed sing some romantic songs..
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no shuai ge at all.. NOT A SINGLE ONE !!
i dun udst my god sis.. first she intro a guy to me, obviously know that i alr have a bf.. it wasnt as if i nv bring wenjun out before.. it wasnt as if me and wenjun was newly couple.. come on, i always tell other ppl me and wenjun lao fu lao qi alr lehz..
i doubt she told him i alr got bf.. becoz there was once i put my pm nick as "darling darling".. i wasnt referring to wenjun, and den he asked me.. "u r attached huh.."
since then, he seldom get contact with me..
this doesnt stop her from promoting him to me, saying how friendly and how cute he is.. come on.. i dun mean looks mean everything.. but.. 1st impression counts ya.. some more i've nv seen him before.. i've nv talked to him or watsoever..
today she stil tells me he send his regards to me.. i was like.. "hmm ok lor.. =) "
i know i shouldnt be speaking ill of her.. but it is simply ridiculous to ask some qnz.. she's a divorcee.. she got to know this guy and have been tgt for ard 1 month.. den she asked da jie, "do u think this guy is better den my ex husband?"
entertainment words replied by my da jie.. but this is the 1st meeting with her current bf.. how the hell would da jie know.. den she asked er jie whether she could drink the red wine offered by her bf.. omg.. 35 yrs old this yr.. not as if she's a young little kid.. i mean.. mayb she's playing la.. but..... isnt it too childish for a 35-yr-old-mother-with-2-kids??
she had two children.. marcus and malcolm.. marcus is going pri 3 next year.. i can say.. he's reali very guai and sensible.. i brought him out once.. he's reali guai ok.. but the mum and the grandma are showing biasness OPENLY.. even an idiot can tell.. they favour malcolm more..
this isnt good.. kids nowadays very ji chou lor.. they might xiang bu kai and li jia chu zou.. den this current bf.. he's a divorcee too and he got a boy.. the custody of the boy belongs to the mum, they are only allowed to meet once a week.. that's y today we got to c the boy.. he clicks with marcus.. that's a gd thing..
to us.. he dun seems simple.. a person who's very good at talking.. da jie fu said becoz now she's a shou shang de nu ren, that's y who ever treats her a little better, she might feels like an angel and give herself to him..
mama told me.. she stayed over at his place every mon, wed and fri.. the reason... is becoz she wanna pei him go jogging.. wth.. isnt it happening too fast? staying over at his place.. over the night, wat can happen?? both of them were married before.. wat is sex to them anyway? nth new.. sounds awful.. but i guess they are both desperate.. and they are tgt for merely ONE month !!
ok.. enough of that.. i hope she gets her happiness too ya.. coz she've suffered too much.. from the ex husband, who's indeed a real bastard..
back to the topic.. the whole family attended this dinner for the sake of attending it.. initially i was rather high and looking forward de.. since i can get to c everyone.. but things dint turn out as wat i expected..
me and mama reached 1st, waiting for da jie and da jie fu at the mrt.. when they reached.. ya.. greeted them.. da jie fu juz greeted me with a smile.. he wasnt the friendly guy i knew a few years back.. i duno wat caused the change in him.. mayb is some biasness from my mama?
er jie obviously is the most worrying among we 3.. mama gave more attention to her.. and i think da jie dun feel gd.. as i'm the youngest, of coz mama dotes on me.. she neglected da jie.. mayb mama herself dun feel that becoz she thot da jie might be sensible.. but da jie seems rather affected.. ever since there's this misunderstanding, our relationship had turned sour.. it became so jia lat den i'm awkward to talk to her or go out with her alone..
it wasnt like that.. she's supposed to be my closest da jie.. den one thing i cant stand is she puts hubby more than anything else.. i cant udst y muz couple stick tgt all the time.. to prove that they are couple?? i mean.. ok la.. loving can have diff ways de ma.. but.. all the time.. a little.. overboard?? they might need some glue?
sometimes i cant stand couples holding hands all the time.. hands get sweat, hands get tired.. they needa rest.. i rather couples having small and stupid arguments to spice up their life.. if walking tgt hold hand stil ok.. but NOT ALL THE TIME !! i'm weird..
maybe i'm weird.. i juz wanna have some time with da jie can.. but they stick tgt like glue.. nan de she comes home every sun with Joie.. nan de our r'ship gets a little better.. nan de we can talk.. nan de there isnt any awkwardness.. i find it difficult to joke with da jie fu.. i find it difficult to communicate with him.. it seems that he's entertaining.. it seems that he dislike being with us.. but who know.. it SEEMS..
my er jie fu.. can he show more care and concern? i admit he's a funny guy.. who can crack jokes anytime anywher.. but.. he's kinda bo chap.. and a little irresponsible.. i heard complaints from er jie, mayb er jie's temper not very good la.. but then.. i simply cannot tahan their family members !!
i know i'm lazy.. but i do vacuum when i find my house damn dirty.. but their house wasnt lidat!! the sister is god damn er xin can.. nv brush teeth!! nvm.. den hor.. stil yell at Cherish !! omg.. Cherish damaged my things i also nv yell ok.. who is she to yell.. tmd.. younger den me by 2 yrs.. and recently she got a bf.. Zzz.. sean! u muz be damn SHOCKED right ???
today my mama drank red wine at the dinner.. she let Cherish had a sip.. we all stopped her.. but she insisted it was nth.. i saw the expression on da jie's face, i saw the expression on da jie fu's face.. i doubt i'll get to see Joie more often.. they were super possessive over this ger.. over superstitious..
i'm sad.. becoz i dun wan er jie to lead this kind of life.. i'm sad becoz i think da jie will bring Joie back less often.. i'm sad becoz da jie and da jie fu wasnt supportive of me wanting to be kong jie..
the top 2 occupation that i chose.. beautician and air stewardess.. they dint wan me to go into these line.. they said things are hei an inside..
wat should i do? should i listen to them? should i go for my dream??
i got a lot of thinkings to do.. give me some time.. =)
i now udst wat is the importance of a partner.. a person who cares for u unconditionally.. i missed his stupid face.. i missed his sms.. i missed his voice.. i missed those senseless arguments..
he's back on 19 dec.. same as reno.. how happy i am.. to c them on the 19 dec.. =D
today is Reno's birthday..
wanna wish RENO happy 22nd birthday !!!
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