Wednesday, March 26, 2008 Y
感情那么复杂的事，怎么可能用对或错，这么简单的二分法来解释？不管是把错拿来怪自己或怪对方，对我来说，都只是逃避责任的方式。因为你不顾正面去面对问题，所以就拿对错两个字来解释一切，这样，复杂的感情看起来会简单一些。。。
说了一句对不起只会让自己比较好过一些，说了对不起，只是把责任转嫁给对方。因为原不原谅你，是对方的责任。。。
喜欢就是喜欢，喜欢只有现在式，没有过去式，没有未来式，喜欢一个人的心情只有现在。。。
过去喜欢一个人，那叫回忆，未来喜欢一个人，那叫假设，只有你眼前的那个人，才配得上喜欢这两个字。。
如果把人与人之间当做一个卖场，爱情在人群中不断地转手，那么趁你的爱情还在跳蚤市场待贾而沽的时候买回，一切都还来得及，不过希望你买回之后，能够好好珍惜这第二手的爱情。。。爱情固然重要，那友情呢？不比爱情来的少。。如果你一心只要爱情，你得到了，可是当你完全掌控爱情时，却发现，朋友都已离你远去，这样的爱情，你会快乐吗? For the benefit of my boy, quek and those who need to struggle reading chinese..
Love do not allow any doubts, without any doubts in love, love can then last long..
Feelings is such a complicated thing, how can we use right or wrong, simple dichotomy to explain? regardless of who is in the wrong, is a kind of shirking the responsibility.. becoz you are not facing and solving the problem, and so.. we use these two words to explain everything.. in this way, the complex sentiment would look simpler..
A word of sorry would make one feels better.. after apologizing, this is to shift responsibility to the other party, becos whether to forgive or not, this decision belongs to the other party..
love is love.. love is only applicable to present tense, no past tense, no future tense..
the feeling of loving someone, is happening now..
loved a person, is recollection..
will love/will be loved a person, is supposition..
only the person in your eyes now, is qualified to entitle the word love..
no doubt love is important, how about friendship? it isnt less important compared to love.. if you only wan love, you got it.. but when you fully control your love life, came to realize, all your frens had gone.. this kind of love.. are you happy?
*P.S. I AM WAITING FOR YOUR CALL! CALL ME PLEASE!!!
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